Flirting with girls can be very difficult, especially for shy guys.
If you are a shy guy and have trouble flirting with girls, this article is made just for you. Below I have five tips for flirting with girls if you are a shy guy.
Acting confident when flirting with a girl is very important because it creates an aura that draws people in. Because many people lack high self-esteems, they are intrigued by people who have high levels of confidence.
Why confidence is most attractive :
- It asserts power and knowledge
- It shows leadership
- It encourages positive thinking
Women want a nice guy because they believe that is what is expected of them, but in reality what they want is the challenge that comes from dating a “bad boy”, so be nice but not too nice.
You could say compliments like :
- You got such nice eyes/lips/teeth/hair etc.
- I could listen to you for hours
Pay attention to what she has to say, ask questions relating to the things she was talking about or her, and make the conversation about her, because women love guys that are good listener’s instead of guys that brag (talk) non-stop about themselves throughout the entire conversation.
Look her in the eyes when she’s talking to you, make a mental note of stuff she’s talking about, and if you mention them later in a conversation she’ll feel special and start enjoying your presence.
Show her your great sense of humour, women like to laugh.
Tell her funny jokes and show her you can laugh at yourself. The more you make her laugh the higher up in her social chain you will seem, it proves you are intellectually strong and humorous, which is a desirable trait in a future mate.
What’s more boring than hanging out with someone who is always serious? Or someone who doesn’t take jokes seriously?
Playfulness sends a signal of positive qualities to a potential long-term mate. Playfulness may send out non-aggressive vibes to women.
Tips for being more playful :
- Smile and laugh throughout the day
- Try new things and experience the unexpected
- Sing and dance just for the fun of it
CONCLUSION
Never change who you are to make a girl like you, but, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t put any effort to get her to like you back (like going to the gym to work on your arms,legs and abbs, because women love mascular guys because they want to feel protected around your arms, especially when mating).
Above I have five flirting tips for shy guys out there, but, don’t over do them or you are going to look really desperate and ruin the mood.
If you follow my tips in the right way, your chances of winning her heart are high.
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